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Helene Burningham shares her experiences of coming out.
The next few years were a bit turbulent - moving countries 5 years on the trot, meeting so many different people, and negotiating friendships, mindsets, and prejudices. But by the time I started my PhD, I knew I was gay, and I had fallen in love. At some point during that period, I wrote letters to both my parents to 鈥榚xplain鈥� - it wasn鈥檛 easy, and I am lucky to have parents who didn鈥檛 make a big deal about it. It was what it was. And that was the full extent of my 鈥榗oming out鈥� 鈥�
That鈥檚 not to say that the whole world knows though. I鈥檝e always been a private person - I really struggle with social media and I don鈥檛 tell the world a huge amount about me full stop. To be honest, being gay is just one tiny element of who I am, it doesn鈥檛 define me, and it is really unlikely to be the first thing you would find out about me 鈥� the fact that I am vegetarian, or that I have 3 dogs, is far more likely to come into the conversation!聽 So perhaps I have actually been coming out every week of every year 鈥� for many years 鈥� and will continue to do so for hopefully many more to come.
It鈥檚 just no big deal to me 鈥�